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Do self-doubt and lack of confidence stop you? You are not alone - My personal story

Overcoming self-doubt is crucial for entrepreneurial success. Learn from personal experiences & real-life examples of Sara Blakely & Reid Hoffman. Acknowledge feelings, focus on strengths, and build confidence to thrive.

Benjemen Elengovan
Benjemen Elengovan
3 min read
Do self-doubt and lack of confidence stop you? You are not alone - My personal story
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Dear UpGrader!

Welcome to another edition of UpGrade, where we explore the invaluable skills and qualities that drive entrepreneurial success. Today, we're tackling a common obstacle that many aspiring entrepreneurs face: self-doubt. Overcoming this barrier can make all the difference in building the confidence you need to launch and grow your business.

The impact of self-doubt on entrepreneurship

Self-doubt is a natural human emotion, but it can be particularly debilitating for entrepreneurs. The fear of failure, uncertainty, and the pressure to succeed can all contribute to a lack of confidence, hindering your ability to take risks and make bold decisions. By overcoming self-doubt, you empower yourself to pursue your dreams and unlock your full potential.

A personal story: My journey to overcoming self-doubt

When I launched my first startup, Noah's Ark Consulting, at 19, I was excited and ambitious. However, I also struggled with self-doubt, questioning my abilities and wondering if I was ready to take on the challenges of entrepreneurship.

It wasn't until I moved to Melbourne in 2015 that I finally regained my confidence and courage to chase my startup dreams. As an international student, I continued consulting for amazing organisations across Australia, which broadened my experience and reinforced my belief in my capabilities.

My key turning point was when I realised that my passion for connecting with people and solving real problems was the driving force behind my entrepreneurial spirit. This realisation helped me overcome my self-doubt and allowed me to launch successful ventures like MyGigsters, Megamind Creations, and Gufy.

Real-life examples of overcoming self-doubt

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Sara Blakely, the founder of Spanx, faced self-doubt when she first devised the idea for her billion-dollar shapewear company. With no background in fashion or business, she initially questioned her ability to succeed. However, she overcame her fears by focusing on her strengths and determination. Today, Sara Blakely is a self-made billionaire and an inspiration to entrepreneurs everywhere.

Reid Hoffman, the co-founder of LinkedIn, experienced self-doubt when he was launching his professional networking platform. He feared that the idea might not resonate with users or that a more established company might outcompete LinkedIn. By acknowledging his fears and seeking support from his network, he overcame self-doubt and guided LinkedIn to its current status as a leading professional networking site.

Below are a few strategies I found useful in my journey of conquering self-doubt and gaining confidence

  1. Acknowledge your feelings: Recognise that self-doubt is a normal part of the entrepreneurial journey. By acknowledging your emotions, you can begin to understand and address their root causes.
  2. Focus on your strengths: Remind yourself of your skills, experiences, and accomplishments. By concentrating on your strengths, you'll build the confidence needed to tackle challenges.
  3. Set realistic goals: Break down your objectives into smaller, achievable milestones. This approach helps you stay motivated and fosters a sense of accomplishment, boosting your self-confidence.
  4. Learn from failure: Embrace the idea that failure is an opportunity for growth. By reframing setbacks as learning experiences, you can overcome fear and build resilience.
  5. Seek mentorship and support: Surround yourself with experienced entrepreneurs who can offer guidance, encouragement, and constructive feedback. A strong support network can help alleviate self-doubt and instil confidence.
  6. Develop a positive mindset: Cultivate optimism and resilience by practising gratitude, visualisation, and positive affirmations. A positive mindset can help you overcome self-doubt and maintain motivation.
  7. Invest in personal growth: Continuously improve your skills and knowledge through learning, training, and networking. Personal growth not only boosts your confidence but also equips you to tackle new challenges.

By implementing these strategies, you can conquer self-doubt and gain the confidence needed to excel as an entrepreneur. Remember, the journey to success is not without obstacles, but overcoming self-doubt is critical in realising your full potential and achieving your goals.

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Benjemen Elengovan

Startup Addict | Founder & CEO of MyGigsters | Tech Enthusiast | ClubHouse @benjemen and Podcast Host


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